I was one of the people she hit a nerve with, but not because of guilt. Mentioned earlier--not in 11yrs have I been unfaithful to my spouse. BUT, this poster still annoyed me with her fishing expedition because people act like they have a right to talk about a cop's marital affairs period. Because of their "public" job? I don't care if it's a cheater or a saint. Like another said---if it isn't a criminal offense or policy violation, it is insignificant and shouldn't be brought up here.