wow! Im not sure i even know who betterville is and now this is who i am married to. Wow. I said my peace and i finished my project. So glad whoever you are knows so much about me. And by the way you cannot tell someone to get over something. We all heal at different paces. This would be what we learn in therapy each and every time i go. Oh and by the way an affair is not the issue here. It would be rape and the fact this investigation never happened. I am just pleased this lady gets her shot and