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Police recruit arrested; accused of rape, sodomy

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RE: Police recruit arrested; accused of rape, sodomy

November 3rd, 2011 @ 5:59PM (12 years ago)

In some cases I feel you 100% and think it's totally great that u took a stand and that u back up girl who stand up to! Big props but speaking as someone who is close to the situatio... Not all cases are the same and in this one of many cases there is defiantly more that u don't know... Just saying don't judge this one yet caus I'm sure he's not part of the statistics but part of the few....

RE: Police recruit arrested; accused of rape, sodomy

November 4th, 2011 @ 1:30AM (12 years ago)

I have gleaned a few disturbing things from your post. Obviously you decided that it was a great idea to be intimate with someone other than your husband (you did say that you were married). Not only did you make this outstanding decision, but you also came to the conclusion that you should completely trust someone that you have known for a whole two days. While accusing this man of rape, you mention that he "rolled you over". I think any prudent person would be led to believe this means you were having sex with him in a missionary position and he decided doggy would be better. You say you protested. I bet he said you didn't. After cheating on your husband with someone you knew for an overwhelming 48 hours, I bet you felt really, really bad about it. Especially since your newfound boyfriend probably knew your husband. In fact, from the language you are using, I bet he worked with your husband. Maybe it didn't turn out the way you thought and maybe he wasn't really in love with you like he said he was. I don't believe you when you say it wasn't investigated. Let's be honest here. You had consensual sex with someone other than your husband and something happened that you didn't like. You decided you were raped and reported it. However, apparently there was no evidence to suggest you were raped (since you were already In the middle of a sexual tryst) except the fact that you decided it was rape. Honey, that doesn't lead to convictions in this country. Quit feeling guilty about your affair, admit that you screwed around on your husband and it was your fault (it takes two to tango), ask God for forgiveness, and move on with your life.