I have to agree. I also believe that sometimes we are our own worst enemies. Sincerity and wishing soldiers and police good will are something that used to be unknown. The guys that trained me all had the bunker mentality, not always bad, but they were all Vietnam Veterans and Cops from the 70's when being called PIG was the norm and Baby Killer when they returned from war. Sometimes it is had to open up the defensive shell. Sorry about your experience.