So you want to reap what rewards you like but shun the parts you don't? You like the security of having that car down the street from your home but don't think about other places. What about that car parked next to yours at the mall or at the grocery store? Or how about in the parking lot of your kids school to which that cop also happens to be a parent? Or stopped beside you at a red light when you see an unsavory character standing on the corner that makes you nervous? Look at the big picture,