I mostly agree with what you said minus the oxymoron of it's a "personal, work matter". it's either personal or it's a work matter and unfortunately, when you bring something "personal" to "work", it becomes everybody's business. It's the nature of the field we're in. Most importantly, I think everyone on this page is guilty, even those defending and arguing Jimmy's side. People keep saying "I know Jimmy and his kids and Debbi is awful and they've told me what she did" is just as bad as those bashing