This is a tragedy all around, and nothing I'm going to say is intended to diminish that. That said, I have to wonder, and I know the history and ongoing tragedy of the Somali Bantu, what social services were being utilized to assist this family in assimiliating into U.S. culture? The Bantu are a strongly patriarchil society, but apparently the women do assimiliate better than the men, and often end up, likely this family, with the father/husband estranged from his children and wife. (Divorce is