If you're going to call people nuts at least leave your name so we can shake your hand SuperCop! I did my time in Iraq and came back to this job the same person I was before I left...a human being. Did you serve? Because if you didn't you need to shut your mouth. You expect everyone on this department to be as "tough" as you and just deal with it? We're humans and each of us react differently in certain situations. You need to get a clue.