The family of this murder victim, is upset because someone is smiling and not sharing their grief? #1 I have been to many homicide scenes, and sometimes you have to force some humor or a smile just so you don't retch. There is nothig more shocking than seeing murder scenes in their entirety. #2 Do you think that Officers have to scowl at murder scenes? Can't you get it through your head that we are people too? Does it matter to you that the officers may have been taking about something totaly unrelated