I can't figure if it is immaturity, or a cynicism with you . There are two types of people, a Winner, and a Whiner. You being the latter. A winner defines happiness and success, generally, with a focus on the internal: emotional contentment, a quality character, and well-earned pride. A whiner, on the other hand, tends to define happiness and success with a focus on the external: material collections, conquests, and reputation. It's officers like you, whining about the contract, that make the rest