Now you know it is far more likely it was the other woman, not the wifey. Just sayin. Also, quit bein passive aggressive and posting on a website your intended target will likely never read and just say something like a grown up. You carry a gun and have a considerable amount of authority over a lot of people but you can't tell a coworker to get their sh-t right while backing you up? You sound like someone I wouldn't want backing ME up. Jackass.