OK i will end this. My points were there are ways to handle things in a safer manner and to not complain about lack of respect then call someone ignorant. NO post on a website will ever cover each situation, but that doesn't mean you can't learn from it or debate it without getting fired up and taking offense. The problem here is that people want to say well what about this and get pi@@ed off like you are belittling them and challenging their abilities or courage. NOWHERE in any of my posts have