No, you missed the point. I am not concerned with anyone's lifestyle. Nor am I stressed out. I wasn't the author of the original post, either. I merely commented to your other post (claiming dispatchers and cops shouldn't even be friends) that there are several officers/dispatchers in marriages or relationships and that has been a norm for many years in many departments. That's not gossip. That is truth. I personally choose not to date or marry within the workplace, so I don't have to deal with