If I walked up to my grandfather at my grandmothers funeral and asked him what he planned on doing with her car, that would be an issue involving a lack of tact. me stating what I have to say here, is an issue of opinion. I am just able to express my opinion is a manner that can be considered insulting by some. It doesnt change the fact that I have given an opinion that is responding in kind to some of the less threatening insults, and substantiated it with fact. The only thing thast changes is